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Introduction

Some songs don’t just tell a story — they live it.
“Holding Things Together” isn’t a hit built for radio fame. It’s quieter than that. Sadder. More honest.

Merle Haggard wrote this song like someone scribbling a confession at the kitchen table after midnight — after the kids are in bed, the silence is too loud, and life has gotten too real to fake a smile. It’s the voice of a man left behind, doing everything he can to keep the world from falling apart — for his child, for his home, for whatever little’s left.

No drama. No accusations. Just a quiet kind of heartbreak that seeps through the cracks of ordinary days.
The opening line says it all:

“Holding things together ain’t no easy thing to do…”

And if you’ve ever had to hold it together for someone else — especially a child — when your own heart is breaking, this song hits like truth. That’s the power of Merle. He didn’t just write country songs. He wrote real life.

“Holding Things Together” was released in 1974, tucked into the “Merle Haggard Presents His 30th Album.” It wasn’t his flashiest track. But for those who’ve lived through loss, single parenthood, or silent sacrifices — it’s unforgettable. You won’t find many songs that carry this much weight in so few words.

It’s not just about a father and a child. It’s about holding onto love even after it leaves.
It’s about keeping the lights on when nobody else is coming home.

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Lyrics

Holding things together
Ain’t no easy thing to do
When it comes to raisin’ children
It’s a job – meant for two
Alice please believe me
I can’t go on and on
Holding things together
With you gone.
Today was Angie’s birthday
I guess it slipped your mind
I tried twice to call you
But no answer either time
But the postman brought a present
I mailed some days ago
I just signed it love from mama
So Angie wouldn’t know.
Holding things together
Ain’t no easy thing to do
When it comes to raisin’ children
It’s a job – meant for two
Alice please believe me
I can’t go on and on
Holding things together
With you gone.
Alice please believe me
I can’t go on and on
Holding things together
With you gone.

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