
Some songs don’t just play — they settle into you. “That’s the Way Love Goes” is one of those rare tunes that doesn’t try to explain everything about love — it just lets it be.
When Merle Haggard recorded this song in 1983 (originally penned by Lefty Frizzell and Sanger D. Shafer), he gave it a warmth and quiet honesty that made it feel like advice from someone who’s been through it all. The heartbreak, the healing, the letting go, the loving again — it’s all there, not shouted, but whispered like a truth you’ve always known deep down.
What makes Merle’s version unforgettable is how unhurried it is. He doesn’t rush through the pain or the beauty. He just lets the song breathe — the way love does when you stop trying to control it.
For anyone who’s been bruised by love but still believes in it, this song is a soft hand on the shoulder. It doesn’t fix things. It doesn’t preach. It just says: “Yeah… that’s the way love goes.”
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